How To Get A Guy Back - 5 Step Plan

You want to know how to get a guy back. You miss him. You feel terrible. You feel like a piece of you has been taken away. But you need to stop focusing on him, and turn the focus to you. The good news is that if you are willing to do some things that may go totally against your instincts, you can discover how to get a guy back in 5 easy, time-tested steps that have worked for others.

1 - Texting kills!

Your thumbs are killing you. Texting is so easy to do, and can be so devastating. It allows people to convey thoughts instantly, but this is not what you want right now. You have to get your head right FIRST! Do you really want your ex looking at his phone and sighing, "Not her again!"? Jump off of the communication train.

2 - Call a time-out!

Take some time to distance yourself. If you are serious about discovering how to get your guy back, you need to do some things that are painful. I know you want nothing more than to be with him, but trust me. This separation will do two things. It will give you time to work on yourself and those things you know you need to change, and it will create a sense of mystery in your ex. Why isn't she calling? What is she doing? This is very powerful. Spend time with family and non-mutual friends, and improve your negative habits.

3 - Thank him for giving you the axe!

After a week or two, give him a call, and simply tell him this. Say, "I just wanted to say thank you for doing what needed to be done. I was thinking about a break-up myself. I am glad you had the strength to do what I couldn't. Thanks for setting us free." "WHAT!?" you are screaming at me. I know it sounds crazy, but it works like magic. Do not say anything else, keep the conversation brief, do NOT let it turn into a re-hashing of old junk. Say you are busy and have to run, and get off. Now the power is back on your side.

4 - Show him you are happy and healthy!

You have worked on yourself, you backed away, stopped harassing him, and told him you were happy for the break. You are following all the how to get a guy back steps perfectly. Now show him you are sincere. I am not telling you to go have a one-night stand with his friend, but you DO need to get out and have some fun with friends. Get out in public. When you see his friends be positive and upbeat. Nobody wants to love someone who is grumpy and unhappy.

5 - Make your move!

By now you may be getting signals from friends that there is some interest on his part. Contact him and tell him that while you are happy for the time off to work on yourself, you still have feelings about him and would like to know if he feels the same. If he says no, be ultra-cool and say okay. So many times, an ex will initially refuse your advances, only to watch you to see if your changes are sincere. Show him they are, and you will see all of your hard work pay off.

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