You Got Dumped Girlfriend - Now What?

You Got Dumped Girlfriend - Now What?
By Jackie Union
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You never believed you would be the dumped girlfriend. You thought the two of you were great together, the perfect couple. But he broke up with you, and now you are left confused, angry and desperate. You have become the dumped girlfriend, and you have no idea what to do. The picture of a dumped girlfriend is not pretty.

She stalks and drunk dials, texting fifty times a day. Do not let this happen to you. I know you have only one thing on your mind. A dumped girlfriend wants nothing more than to get her ex back, and that is all you can focus on. You need to talk to him, text him, let him know how much you love him. These are all very common impulses, but they are all detrimental to your reunion. As hard as it may seem, you need to stay away, cut off all communication, and let him have his space.

This is incredibly difficult. You are going through a very rough time. But your emotions are in turmoil, and can not be trusted. That is why you need to follow a proven step by step program that will get your ex back, and keep you from ever again getting dumped, girlfriend. This system makes decisions for you that play on age-old psychological facts about human behavior.

Humans act in a certain way in certain situations, and one thing that humans desire very strongly is that which they can not have. Your absence from his life will create questions in his mind. Is he going to lose you forever? Are you seeing other people? Do you think of him? If you are calling, texting and "accidentally" showing up where you know he will be, he knows he can have you back any time he wants. That is why you are going to stay away.

Use the horrible feelings that come from being a dumped girlfriend. You never want to feel this way again. So keep busy while you are apart from your ex. Visit friends and family, take up a hobby, or begin a strenuous workout program. (The endorphins you release when you exercise are very powerful in relieving the stress and pain of a breakup.)

When and if your ex hears about you, he needs to see a cool, calm, put-together person. Even if you are boiling inside, give an outer appearance of confidence and happiness. If he thinks for one second that you could live without him, he will immediately regret making you the dumped girlfriend, and begin to need you back in his life.

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